In a world where right becomes wrong and wrong becomes a compromises, they said it's normal. Yes, it's normal---only because it's okay to make love.
A purity walk for a couple who lives with the norms will be hard, but for someone who lives for the word, it is possible. I am in a relationship now and as Christian couple, we decided to not kiss nor hold hands and of course not commit fornication (sex before marriage). We both agreed to be an example to the "broken world" we are living. It may be a long way for us but we acknowledge our friendship and relationship with the Lord that makes our relationship important.
We don't trust our own capacity to love each other but God's amazing and unending love for us. We built our hope not in our hope but God's hope for our future and purpose. We take one day at a time and for others we may look stupid as we are running against the crowd--- but through the strength of the Lord, our purity walk will be a success.
We don't trust our own capacity to love each other but God's amazing and unending love for us. We built our hope not in our hope but God's hope for our future and purpose. We take one day at a time and for others we may look stupid as we are running against the crowd--- but through the strength of the Lord, our purity walk will be a success.
For others, love should be partnered with physical intimacy. For us, it's our intimacy with Christ that keeps us from stumbling and disobeying His word---which makes us love each other and other people. My boyfriend said, I will never lay hands on you or kiss you not until marriage if God allows. A sacrifice he has to pursue to achieve greatness in the Kingdom of God. In order to pursue me, He needs to pursue God and His words.
I have witnessed guys in the past who's ultimate intention was to let a woman fall then leave when they get what they want, which result to a woman's low self esteem, feeling of unworthiness, resentment, fear of love, fear of men and many other negative feeling that only Satan brings.
Sex is made by God as special and it should be shared to someone who deserves you not just about you. It is made to experience oneness in the spirit and the soul. When it is shared to the wrong person, a soul tie that has already been made through sex will still be present which make it harder for the other or both party to separate from each other--- one or the other should be hurt. Anything that is tied when forcefully pulled will be broken into small pieces. Like humans, we are to be careful whom are we tying our soul with, this may cause us to struggle in our relationship with others or may result to a wonderful and successful relationship when centered in God's word.
I have witnessed guys in the past who's ultimate intention was to let a woman fall then leave when they get what they want, which result to a woman's low self esteem, feeling of unworthiness, resentment, fear of love, fear of men and many other negative feeling that only Satan brings.
Sex is made by God as special and it should be shared to someone who deserves you not just about you. It is made to experience oneness in the spirit and the soul. When it is shared to the wrong person, a soul tie that has already been made through sex will still be present which make it harder for the other or both party to separate from each other--- one or the other should be hurt. Anything that is tied when forcefully pulled will be broken into small pieces. Like humans, we are to be careful whom are we tying our soul with, this may cause us to struggle in our relationship with others or may result to a wonderful and successful relationship when centered in God's word.
So now that I am in a relationship, we choose purity and we decide to commit all those when we are ready and when God says we are. It's not that we are trying to make the church look "holy" but we are trying to make other christian understand that the secret to a successful christian relationship is self-control and sensitivity to the word of the Lord.
Our purity walk will be an example of faith and will build other young generations of Christian to pursue God more and not their future partners. Soak yourselves with the word and allow it to guide you in every step of the way. It will make you become a powerful Christian couple that serves the Lord our Saviour Jesus Christ.
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